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Sunday, May 17, 2015

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A Very, Very Special Treat

Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is. Barbara Bush (former First Lady)
Fact of life – men love blow jobs.
No surprise, really. After all, what you rather have him do to you – fumble around in the dark, or get down to some serious breakfast, lunch and dinner on you? Oral sex is just wonderful [Note to the puritans amongst us: oral sex does not mean just talking about it… It means much, much more.]
So; if you want to give your man a fantastic experience that costs nothing and is not fattening, give him a blow job. Easy, and you don’t even need any special equipment. But – and I just have to ask this – how good are you when it’s time to suck the lollipop?
I know some women are a little uncertain about blow jobs. Perhaps they feel they are being used, and that there is nothing it for them. The idea of kneeling before their man worries them.
Now that’s just silly! Who do you think is in charge? Who is holding whose important bits in her hand? Who can make her displeasure known instantly by closing her teeth? Women are ‘in charge’, of course. As with all good love making, the woman decides what is going to happen, and the man knows very well that if he pushes her when she does not want to be pushed, there might not be another opportunity.
So, if you want to give your man a wonderful time and you are absolutely in charge, answer me this; why do men who apparently know about these things say that, without fail, men give better blow jobs than women? You might think you are good but, believe me, you can be better. Don’t ask your man about this. He will certainly lie because, as Barbara Bush said, even half a loaf feels pretty good, and it is way better than no bread at all.
This is important, ladies, and you owe it to yourself to study and get better, starting today…
Just a snippet from How to make Wild, Passionate Love to your Man. Of course, there is much more to study…


Look and Lick

Start by holding his cock and studying it carefully. Even if it is an old friend and has been inside you thousands of times, he will enjoy watching you explore it. Pull his foreskin back if he has one, and look at it from all angles. An experimental lick or two is in order, especially burrowing the tip of your tongue into spots under the rim of the glans. Kisses all over and down to his balls are also welcome. Then close your mouth, run your tongue over your lips to wet them, look him straight in the eye and suck the whole glans slowly into your mouth. Don’t just open your mouth and pop it in; suck him in with a long slow slurp. You are now ready to start in earnest.
It is surprising how many ladies think that fellatio consists of bobbing their head up and down so that their lover’s cock slips in and out of their mouth. While it is true that this feels good to your man, it doesn’t feel as good as doing the same thing in your pussy which, after all, is designed to do just that. Neither is it essential to force his cock deep into your mouth. Again, your pussy specializes in that and does it better.
What your pussy can’t do – and your mouth does extremely well – is lick and suck; roll your tongue up and torment the slit at the end; lick round and around the rim of the glans; flick-flick-flick at the web of skin between the two ribs on the lower side of the glans – in fact a whole galaxy of different sensations. All of these things are intensely exciting, and you can only give them to him with your mouth. So suck it in and hold it in your warm mouth for a while and explore it with your tongue.
You are holding his cock in your hand while you explore the glans, and if he has a foreskin you are holding it back so you can run your tongue around all those exciting corners. Foreskin or not, you should be holding the skin of his shaft back firmly. This pulls at the join between the glans and the shaft, and stretches those sensitive nerves endings. Stretched out like this they are at the mercy of your tongue tip as you flick it back and forth around the join. Keep watching him while you do this because if there is any sign he is getting too excited, you must back off quickly. Just relax the tension your hand is giving him, and leave the glans alone.
Men will let you lick and suck at the head of their cock for just as long as you like, and in fact many women complain that they don’t like fellatio because it is tiring to keep their mouth open for so long. This is just an excuse for bad technique and shows that the women concerned don’t really care. Of course keeping your mouth wide open for long periods is uncomfortable – who enjoys going to the dentist? So shut it! Keep his cock in your mouth as long as you are comfortable, and then take it out and do something else. Lick it. Give it big wet kisses and sucks using just your lips with your teeth closed. Hold his prick up and bury your face in his balls. Poke your tongue at the end of it and work with your hands for a while. Kiss his balls (gently) and nibble at his bag with your lips. He will enjoy all of those things.
In the first phase of your work try all sorts of caresses and, of course, repeat those that have the most interesting effect on him. At this point you do not need any sort of rhythm. That comes next.
Building up
Your mouth is wet and soft, and one of the delightful things you can do to him is to move him around inside it. With your mouth relaxed and open just enough to keep your teeth clear, put the glans or part of it in your mouth and move your head gently from side to side. Don’t worry if you dribble a bit; it all adds to the luxurious feeling you will be giving him. If you wanted to, you could make him come just like this. It is such a relaxed method that you can even do it lying on your back with him resting his tip on (rather than in) your mouth from the side.
Although the most intense and enjoyable sensations come from your mouth, the drive to orgasm should ideally come from your hands. Cup his balls in one hand and gently brush and manipulate his bag. With the other hand, work the skin on his shaft back and forth. As you are licking and sucking at his glans, the range of movement of your hand is necessarily limited so here is a technique that is guaranteed to drive him mad.
Pull the skin on his shaft back positively until it tugs at the glans. Then pull back harder until it is really tight – your man will let you know if you overdo this – and relax again but only far enough to reduce the tension, not so far that the tension disappears. Just go from tight to very tight and back again. And now repeat this stroke, slowly at first, faster as you approach his orgasm.
Remember that it is your hand that gives him the orgasm, not your mouth. Your hand makes the orgasm, and your mouth makes sure the orgasm is the most fantastic, intense and explosive experience possible. The combination of your mouth on his glans and your hand on the shaft is what will give him the perfect blow job.


Jacqueline lives in Far North Queensland, on the shore of the Coral Sea. She keeps herself busy with her cats and garden, and by writing books - some of which are far too naughty for her own good. You can find out more about Jacqueline and her books at www.jacquelinegeorgewriter.com 

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