Clinton lied. A man might forget where he
parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it
is. Barbara Bush (former First Lady)
Fact of life – men love blow jobs.
No surprise, really. After all, what you
rather have him do to you – fumble around in the dark, or get down to some
serious breakfast, lunch and dinner on you? Oral sex is just wonderful [Note to
the puritans amongst us: oral sex does not mean just talking about it… It means
much, much more.]
So; if you want to give your man a
fantastic experience that costs nothing and is not fattening, give him a blow
job. Easy, and you don’t even need any special equipment. But – and I just have
to ask this – how good are you when it’s time to suck the lollipop?
I know some women are a little uncertain
about blow jobs. Perhaps they feel they are being used, and that there is
nothing it for them. The idea of kneeling before their man worries them.
Now that’s just silly! Who do you think is
in charge? Who is holding whose important bits in her hand? Who can make her
displeasure known instantly by closing her teeth? Women are ‘in charge’, of
course. As with all good love making, the woman decides what is going to
happen, and the man knows very well that if he pushes her when she does not want
to be pushed, there might not be another opportunity.
So, if you want to give your man a
wonderful time and you are absolutely in charge, answer me this; why do men who
apparently know about these things say that, without fail, men give better blow
jobs than women? You might think you are good but, believe me, you can be
better. Don’t ask your man about this. He will certainly lie because, as
Barbara Bush said, even half a loaf feels pretty good, and it is way better
than no bread at all.
This is important, ladies, and you owe it
to yourself to study and get better, starting today…
Just a snippet from How to make Wild,
Passionate Love to your Man. Of course, there is much more to study…
Look and Lick
Start by holding his cock and studying it
carefully. Even if it is an old friend and has been inside you thousands of
times, he will enjoy watching you explore it. Pull his foreskin back if he has
one, and look at it from all angles. An experimental lick or two is in order,
especially burrowing the tip of your tongue into spots under the rim of the
glans. Kisses all over and down to his balls are also welcome. Then close your
mouth, run your tongue over your lips to wet them, look him straight in the eye
and suck the whole glans slowly into your mouth. Don’t just open your mouth and
pop it in; suck him in with a long slow slurp. You are now ready to start in
earnest.
It is surprising how many ladies think that
fellatio consists of bobbing their head up and down so that their lover’s cock
slips in and out of their mouth. While it is true that this feels good to your
man, it doesn’t feel as good as doing the same thing in your pussy which, after
all, is designed to do just that. Neither is it essential to force his cock
deep into your mouth. Again, your pussy specializes in that and does it better.
What your pussy can’t do – and your mouth
does extremely well – is lick and suck; roll your tongue up and torment the
slit at the end; lick round and around the rim of the glans; flick-flick-flick
at the web of skin between the two ribs on the lower side of the glans – in
fact a whole galaxy of different sensations. All of these things are intensely
exciting, and you can only give them to him with your mouth. So suck it in and
hold it in your warm mouth for a while and explore it with your tongue.
You are holding his cock in your hand while
you explore the glans, and if he has a foreskin you are holding it back so you
can run your tongue around all those exciting corners. Foreskin or not, you
should be holding the skin of his shaft back firmly. This pulls at the join
between the glans and the shaft, and stretches those sensitive nerves endings.
Stretched out like this they are at the mercy of your tongue tip as you flick
it back and forth around the join. Keep watching him while you do this because
if there is any sign he is getting too excited, you must back off quickly. Just
relax the tension your hand is giving him, and leave the glans alone.
Men will let you lick and suck at the head
of their cock for just as long as you like, and in fact many women complain
that they don’t like fellatio because it is tiring to keep their mouth open for
so long. This is just an excuse for bad technique and shows that the women concerned
don’t really care. Of course keeping your mouth wide open for long periods is
uncomfortable – who enjoys going to the dentist? So shut it! Keep his cock in
your mouth as long as you are comfortable, and then take it out and do
something else. Lick it. Give it big wet kisses and sucks using just your lips
with your teeth closed. Hold his prick up and bury your face in his balls. Poke
your tongue at the end of it and work with your hands for a while. Kiss his
balls (gently) and nibble at his bag with your lips. He will enjoy all of those
things.
In the first phase of your work try all
sorts of caresses and, of course, repeat those that have the most interesting
effect on him. At this point you do not need any sort of rhythm. That comes
next.
Building up
Your mouth is wet and soft, and one of the
delightful things you can do to him is to move him around inside it. With your
mouth relaxed and open just enough to keep your teeth clear, put the glans or
part of it in your mouth and move your head gently from side to side. Don’t
worry if you dribble a bit; it all adds to the luxurious feeling you will be
giving him. If you wanted to, you could make him come just like this. It is
such a relaxed method that you can even do it lying on your back with him
resting his tip on (rather than in) your mouth from the side.
Although the most intense and enjoyable
sensations come from your mouth, the drive to orgasm should ideally come from
your hands. Cup his balls in one hand and gently brush and manipulate his bag.
With the other hand, work the skin on his shaft back and forth. As you are
licking and sucking at his glans, the range of movement of your hand is
necessarily limited so here is a technique that is guaranteed to drive him mad.
Pull the skin on his shaft back positively
until it tugs at the glans. Then pull back harder until it is really tight –
your man will let you know if you overdo this – and relax again but only far
enough to reduce the tension, not so far that the tension disappears. Just go
from tight to very tight and back again. And now repeat this stroke, slowly at
first, faster as you approach his orgasm.
Remember that it is your hand that gives
him the orgasm, not your mouth. Your hand makes the orgasm, and your mouth
makes sure the orgasm is the most fantastic, intense and explosive experience
possible. The combination of your mouth on his glans and your hand on the shaft
is what will give him the perfect blow job.
Jacqueline lives in Far North
Queensland, on the shore of the Coral Sea. She keeps herself busy with her cats
and garden, and by writing books - some of which are far too naughty for her
own good. You can find out more about Jacqueline and her books at www.jacquelinegeorgewriter.com
Great post!
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