PDA – The Final Sexual Frontier
Welcome to BRB, everyone! For those who don’t know PDA is a Backstreet Boys song, which stands for Public Display of Affection. A song title that has provided the foundation for my article today, as well as food for thought.
Are you bold? Would you hold hands with your partner in public? Would you grab him or her by the ass and dive in deep with your tongue? Or do you prefer the intimacy to be a little more privately contained?
People are funny creatures, but also creatures of habit. We do what we feel is appropriate to our own personal needs and what we deem comfortable, and each has a specific comfort zone. A minority of the populace are quite brazen and don’t give a shit who sees what, while others are on the timid side and prefer to keep the lovin’ behind closed doors.
I'm reminded of the diversity in human nature on a daily basis because I’m naturally observant. I can spend literally hours people watching. Over a year ago, I was in Vancouver heading to the courthouse, when I noticed a pair of homeless people screwing on the courthouse steps. And even though, they were concealed within a cocoon of sleeping bags, it wasn’t difficult to figure out what they were doing. I had to laugh and kept moving. Now, that was bold. Another time I was at the Abbotsford Airport waiting for my flight when a young couple went at it, tongues and all, before the woman walked through the departures gate. Someone actually told them to get a room. Agreed, it was a bit much, especially with all the children around. Once again, I laughed to myself. Oh what it is to be young and in lust.
I’m not a prude and I don’t care what people do in the privacy of their own homes, but when it concerns the PDA I think certain things just aren’t necessary. Kiss, yes (within reason). Hold hands, yes. Hug, yes. But blatantly screwing…ah no thanks, take it in doors please. No offense, but most of us aren’t Playboy playmates, and I prefer to keep my lunch down. lol And even if the person is physically beautiful, more so than the average joe, some things are better left to the boudoir.
As for myself, I’ll hold hands and even give a kiss, or hug, but anything beyond that I’m not comfortable with. I suppose I’m old school in my way of thinking. Mutual respect speaks volumes, and I don’t want someone ogling my man. His body should be mine alone to enjoy! :)
Happy Yaoi Hunting!